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You know that you want to get better with women. You don't want to feel like it is such a struggle to find someone to be with. You also know very well that you don't want to end up in one of those dead end relationships with a woman you are not really happy with. You want to be in a healthy relationship. One that is exciting, full of surprises and just overall... makes you feel happier than you are right now.
That's not such a hard thing to achieve. I know, we are trained to believe that ending up in a relationship like that is pure luck, but I don't think it has to be. What I think is that most guys end up selling themselves short and as a result, they end up in relationships that are a lot less fulfilling than they could be. Either that, or they just end up feeling lonely. You don't want to feel that way and you really don't have to.
Here are 5 things that will definitely make you more successful with women so that you can get better at attracting a woman and so you don't feel like you have to settle:
1. You need to have self confidence first and foremost.
To truly be an alpha male you have to become confident in yourself. Not only is this a very attractive quality that most women value pretty highly, but it is also something that will keep you from selling yourself short and ending up with the wrong woman. A guy who is really confident in himself isn't going to put up with being in a dead end relationship. He knows that he deserves better and he knows that he can go out and get what he wants.
2. You need to listen to yourself more than others.
A problem that a lot of guys have when it comes to dating, is that they end up listening to the wrong people when they are getting advice. They listen to guys who are miserable and single tell them exactly what they need to do to attract a woman. Or, they listen to women who give them fantasy ideas of what a man should be, an image that they can't live up to no matter how hard they try. You need to listen to yourself more than others because you know what you really want and what will really make you happy.
3. You will be a lot more successful with women if you hang out with women.
This is more for getting to know women on a level that you can only get when you actually spend time with them. You can observe what it is that they talk about, who it is that they are really attracted to and a lot of the time, that will give you more insights than anything that you can read about what women want. Most guys don't end up with a lot of female friends, but if you do make some, you'll eventually get better with women.
4. You have to accept that you can't always get a woman to say yes to a date with you.
This is something that you need to accept so that you don't become one of those guys who is so afraid of hearing a woman say no, that he doesn't ever ask a woman out on a date. Plenty of guys are so afraid of hearing a woman say no when they ask for a date, that they become a little too comfortable with avoiding that kind of situation. Meaning, they don't ask out anyone and so, they never hear a no - but, they also never hear a yes.
5. You have to be able to carry on a conversation with a woman that captivates her attention.
It's especially important when you are first meeting her. You want her to feel a connection and chemistry with you and that is not going to happen if she ends up getting bored talking to you. This is why that suggestion of hanging out with women can end up being so helpful. You can learn what it is that you need to say to keep a woman's attention and at the same time, make her feel attracted to you.
That's not such a hard thing to achieve. I know, we are trained to believe that ending up in a relationship like that is pure luck, but I don't think it has to be. What I think is that most guys end up selling themselves short and as a result, they end up in relationships that are a lot less fulfilling than they could be. Either that, or they just end up feeling lonely. You don't want to feel that way and you really don't have to.
Here are 5 things that will definitely make you more successful with women so that you can get better at attracting a woman and so you don't feel like you have to settle:
1. You need to have self confidence first and foremost.
To truly be an alpha male you have to become confident in yourself. Not only is this a very attractive quality that most women value pretty highly, but it is also something that will keep you from selling yourself short and ending up with the wrong woman. A guy who is really confident in himself isn't going to put up with being in a dead end relationship. He knows that he deserves better and he knows that he can go out and get what he wants.
2. You need to listen to yourself more than others.
A problem that a lot of guys have when it comes to dating, is that they end up listening to the wrong people when they are getting advice. They listen to guys who are miserable and single tell them exactly what they need to do to attract a woman. Or, they listen to women who give them fantasy ideas of what a man should be, an image that they can't live up to no matter how hard they try. You need to listen to yourself more than others because you know what you really want and what will really make you happy.
3. You will be a lot more successful with women if you hang out with women.
This is more for getting to know women on a level that you can only get when you actually spend time with them. You can observe what it is that they talk about, who it is that they are really attracted to and a lot of the time, that will give you more insights than anything that you can read about what women want. Most guys don't end up with a lot of female friends, but if you do make some, you'll eventually get better with women.
4. You have to accept that you can't always get a woman to say yes to a date with you.
This is something that you need to accept so that you don't become one of those guys who is so afraid of hearing a woman say no, that he doesn't ever ask a woman out on a date. Plenty of guys are so afraid of hearing a woman say no when they ask for a date, that they become a little too comfortable with avoiding that kind of situation. Meaning, they don't ask out anyone and so, they never hear a no - but, they also never hear a yes.
5. You have to be able to carry on a conversation with a woman that captivates her attention.
It's especially important when you are first meeting her. You want her to feel a connection and chemistry with you and that is not going to happen if she ends up getting bored talking to you. This is why that suggestion of hanging out with women can end up being so helpful. You can learn what it is that you need to say to keep a woman's attention and at the same time, make her feel attracted to you.
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